Shoulded to Death

Shoulded to Deathby: Josh PatrickPublished on: 08/10/2026

Josh Patrick explores why some problems need solutions while others need company. He reflects on retirement, caregiving, cancer, empathy and his own habit of handing out advice when what people sometimes need most is someone willing to sit with them.

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Shoulded to Death

Old but not an elder

Old but not an elderby: Josh PatrickPublished on: 17/09/2026

Josh Patrick reflects on the difference between being old and becoming an elder, what his mentor Shields Harvey taught him without saying it, and why true elders don't give advice until they're asked. He asks who we turn to when decisions matter most

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Old but not an elder

Mindset or Action? You're Asking the Wrong Question.

Mindset or Action? You're Asking the Wrong Question.by: Josh PatrickPublished on: 23/07/2026

Josh Patrick explores whether lasting change starts with mindset or action. Through stories of responsibility and cancer, he reveals the overlooked skill that connects both and helps create meaningful, lasting transformation.

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Mindset or Action? You're Asking the Wrong Question.

The Door marked responsible

The Door marked responsibleby: Josh PatrickPublished on: 09/07/2026

Josh Patrick shares the painful lesson of opening a restaurant to save jobs and losing $50,000. Discover why the most “responsible” choice can shrink your life and how to tell whether your effort leads to growth or dead ends.

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The Door marked responsible